You know... of course you don`t know, this spring and summer was, well, up until now, the most difficult time I have ever had in my personal life. I just can`t count how many problems were there to face me, and with every minute it goes, I started seeing my, bad sides... Nothing was good in this semester, almost. I knew I was not good enough to start studying in Japanese, but I didn`t study as I should have, thus having problem with lectures and exams. Plus, I had to crush some feelings. but also, feeling rejected as a foreigner in Japanese society or well at least in classes and clubs. Most unfortunately, none to talk to, none to share with, none to be listened to, none no nothing...

YEAH! it has been like that. I have changed, or it is more correct to say It changed me. I feel myself, growing cold.

Well, whatever the case. WHO CARES?

"It's only after you've lost everything, that you're free to do anything"

. "Listen to me! You have to consider the possibility that God does not like you. He never wanted you. In all probability, he hates you. This is not the worst thing that can happen."

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TOP of the iceberg

You know, we all have our own personalities. There are some who get happy as easy as they get angry, or otherwise. Also, people tend to suppress their feeling towards others` action, often, regardless of their relationship to other person. Moreover, if we get mad at everything around that seems wrong, we can`t live in harmony. With this in mind, let`s see one case.

Lets say there are 3 people A, B, C. Person A got angry at B, and C knows a reason or two about why A got angry at B. then C judges A douchebag or whatever, because C thinks the reason A have to get mad towards B`s action, is trivial, and laughs back at A. In this case, C is third-person, or an excess. For C doesnt know everything about A and B and their relationship and stuff. Not only does it concern C but also B.

What I want to point out is that, one should, highly, refrain from judging the person who got angry by judging the reason which made him angry. Because it is WRONG. Judging one might know a reason or two but not all. It might be just only TOP of the iceberg. Or it just happened to be the climax or trigger that triggered water to overflow the container.

Don`t go around judging people from what you know, that is small portion of it --- Today`s lesson.

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